Bismillah.
Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Penyayang.
Selawat dan salam buat nabi Muhammad dan para sahabat baginda.
Hi guys.
Have you renew your syahadah today?
I think it is not too late to wish to all mothers a happy
mother days.
So, if you guys ask me whether it is possible or not a
muslim celebrating mother days, and my answer will be a yes and also a no.
Basically, it is up to our level of iman. If we think and
niat that we celebrate mother days because of we wanna eppreciate our mother
deeds sincerely, then it is no problem. However, if we believe that by
celebrating mother days will reduce or shake our iman. So, just don’t.
If you notice that I write mother days not mothers
day because we all know that every single day is mother day. Right?
So, I wanna share some stories about both my parents.
Actually this is inspired by my friend when he randomly ask
a our group who we are closest to? So, fitrah stated that a son will be more
closed to mother and a daughter will be more close to father. But my answer
will be both. Because for me, it is not fair for both my parent if I were to be
closed to a side and be not so close to the other side.
So, in this version I definitely will talk about my mother first.
Mum was the one who I respect most because she really know
how to keep everything herself. We, not knowing anything on the other hand,
keep hurting her. Even sometimes we were so rush that we forgot to mention her
name in our dua. Not to mention that she never miss to keep her dua for us in her five daily prayers plus all
her sunat prayers. I am a mum and dad girl because everytime I be at home, I
will cry the last day at home. Knowing that I have been a bad child for the
remaining time I stayed there and knowing that I might have not being a useful
or even a soleh child.
When I went back for
holidays, I tried my best to wake up early and do whatever I can to help her
even when she never ask. She never ask. She will never ask sometimes but deep
inside, she was really grateful when I decided to help her.
And of course she always advice me with a very soft way. She
always ask me to sedekah my quran recitation for my grandmother and my grandfather
as she always said that it was the only way to help my grandparents. Eventually
I realize that she would really want me to be the same as she is. Reciting
quran to help her parent.
Even when I talk to her, my tears will definitely
rolling down the check as I cried. Most of my siblings, that were very hard to
wake early including me will definitely wake up early the last day at home and
spent most of our time with mum. And yeah, sometimes we even quarrel laying on
mum bed.
As every mum did, mum always know of I or my siblings have
problems. You know what they say, you can never keep it from your mum. And to
be honest when mum ask me is there any problem, I definitely will cry.
Even mum don’t know how to use technology. But she learn.
Why? Because she just want to feel and experience the thing that her children
love the most. Eventually, she sometimes loves to call you name just because
she miss you.
I remember my mum saying that the house will definitely
become quiet because most of her children have gone back and proceed their
works and of course, hearing that I
unable to resist myself from shedding tears.
Okay, I believe that is enough for now.
Do drop your story about your mum down there.
And remember.
“ The bless from Allah come from the bless of our parent”
Love your parent and appreciate them as they are the reason
of our existence.
And yes, for those who doesn't have mum or dad, you can still be nice to them by reciting the Quran to them and always mention their name in your doa. Whoever our parents are, bad or good, never stop pray for them.
Assalamualaikum,
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